Healthy Relationships

Healthy Relationships - Relationships of any kind, need work to function. We think that having friends is easy but is not. A healthy friendship relationship is based on understating and trust. Just as friendships love relationships are based on the same things. Nowadays, the term Healthy Relationship is relative. It's not as it were on our parents times when they fall in love and make a commitment at the age of 20. Nowadays, 320 years old teenagers, want fun, parties, lots of partners and liberty. We can't built a relationship on arguments and jealousy. Many grown people, don't understand why teenagers don't know the term Healthy Relationship. Well, they do not know it, because they don't want this now.

A Healthy Relationship means a relationship where love is what keeps those people together. Trust, respect, understanding, communication are collateral things that work for the relationship to go on. A Healthy Relationship is one where jealousy doesn't exists. It's normal to be a little bit jealous, but be careful because jealousy is a disease. Having doubts and always searching for things that aren't there might ruin any relationship. Also, in order to be perfectly happy, you have to understand each other. We are all different and the best couples are those that complete each other. So, it's normal to have flaws and all, but it's more normal to understand this.

In a Healthy Relationship, there are arguments and fights as well. There is no perfect relationship, and it's normal to have different opinions, but just don't let a small thing become a big thing. Also Healthy Relationships means healthy sex life. Many couples nowadays, put a lot of accent on sex. Sex is what brings closer together two young people. If the sex is not good, if there's no spark no passion, then it won't work. In a relationship there are three things that matter: first is love. Love keeps people together, and even after  a long time, love transforms into carrying and respect. The second thing is sex and passion. If you don't feel butterflies and if you don't feel amazing with the person besides you, then in my opinion, maybe that person is not the right one. And the third one is understanding. For a relationship to work you have to let go at some things, make some compromises.

In the end, a Healthy Relationship, is a relationship that you know it can't be broken. some couples form a bond that is hardly found at others. Relationships are hard, complicated, some people suffer some don't but in the end, a relationship and love is what makes us want to live. The feeling of being in love is amazing, and is the best feeling ever. The emotions you go through when you are loved and you love back, can't be described. I can fill up many pages on what love is, and how should a relationship be. But , we eventually do what our heart tells us to do, and we can't be strong for someone who is not strong for us. When you find that special someone, you will know he she is the one, and everything else will come in time, without any effort.